MOTHER: (A WARRIOR)

Today let's talk about the one women, whom everyone had in there life. "Your Mother". It's not a mother's day, but you know every mother is special. So there is no such need to dedicate to make mother day cause with her every day is special and every day is a blessing.

This blog will not be one of the usual blog but I am very sure u all gonna know much more about your mother today. After all we all are here to grow and our mother had played a very special role in growing us. While in the process of knowing your mother it is possible to know more about " what is life"?

Request;- For this blog don't see your mother as a "MOTHER'' see them as a person. Whom you didn't know, as you have never met her.

                                                        

NOW LET'S LISTEN TO A STORY; 

A story of a simple girl who grew up with  lots of love and affection. And this love and affection was given to her by her parents (No doubt how a mother posses such love and affection) because she has grew up with such love and caring.

Now that when she was a child she dosen't know anything about What is life, struggle, hardship and sacrifices are? (Now ask your mother about it she might give you a knowledge worth your life).

At the age of her going to school, she started to know, that she has a life, she has her dream. She get to know about the world and probably at this age the curiosity led her to explore things more and more, just like we are doing, you know (exploring).

Now when she passed school at that time probably the parents wanted the girls to get married. She was scared, just now she had thought of her career and now marriage but still she had some fantasies with marriage and hope in her heart in marriage.

While scaring but in believe and hope she get married to a man whom she didn't know at all or have known for a less time, but whatever the condition, she choose to believe the man of her life.

Now here starts the journey of being a mother,(our mother), (your mother).

From here some of the women become housewife, some will become working women but one  thing is common in them all, they will become our mother.

Now lets hear the story of MOTHER.

Before being a mother,(that 9 months), imagine having no experience of having a child , no experience of motherhood. She was probably wondering, that "what is the feeling to have a child( your own child)". Whom she had grown in her womb for 9 month with her own blood and tear. She was ready to protect (the piece of life that hasn't born yet) irrespective of her life.

[ You all will know this feeling you will have your own child one day].

A mother is a very special creature created by a god in the earth. After getting married to a different house with different culture. A women have no one, accept her husband and her own child.

A mother who is also a human have there own life to explore but she gave up on her life for the family whom she didn't know in her past.

Sacrifices become the second best friend in her life. Sacrifices for her dream. Sacrifice  for exploring the world. Sacrifices for job. Sacrifices for being independent. Even sometimes she gave up on her tear also just to raise you.

Have you ever asked your mother what she has sacrificed for you?

When I looked at my mother she seems to  be very happy but inside she hides all the pain that she is carrying along all her life. In her eyes I can clearly see that pain on giving up her own life but still she pretends that she dosen't need anything. She is happily doing her chores  in the kitchen standing all day along in a simple set of clothes dosen't even care what is she wearing.

My MAA is a very firecy woman, My father used to tell me, that if i had a mother like this I would have been a very successful man in my life. My maa has always a dream of acquiring more knowledge to complete her graduation degree and to become independent. But she sacrificed everything just to raise us[Me and My siblings].

She dosen't ask for anything, not a saree, no jewellery nothing. I can say she is not demanding but just want one thing from us to get success to be independent. She dosen't even let me  see her tears fearing that I might get weak if i see her weak. She hide all her pain with just a smile and everytime i get amazed by seeing this, that how can a women, after loosing every thing can be this happy.

It's not happiness friends it's us there child and her family for who she is going through all this and I think if I had my child someday I do the same I don't know why but it is really a mysterious feeling, I m wondering about.

Every mother in the world is a great warriors, who fight everyday for their children, weather it is a working mother or a single mother, they all share the same love to their children.

Let's talk about the mother who is working;

I think the working mothers are very passionate not just with her career and life but with her children life also. They set a great example for society how to handle the house and the job. But still get criticized for following her dream.

Tell me friends is it wrong for our mother to follow her own dreams? Is it wrong for them to become independent and passionate?

Before being a mother she firstly was a human and it's human nature to be passionate with things. So if our mother get passionate and wanted to pursue her dream then why do we ignore it and criticized her. She gave us everything, the things we have never asked before but in the return, if she just wanted one things it's become our duty to full fill that and support her.

Mother is precious gift from the god to us. The sacrifices that she make for us, the effort she put to raise us.            

• Buying clothes for their children not for herself.
• Cooking healthy meal for us.
• Taking care of our needs in the first place.

Do u think as a person someone can do this all for another person? It's your mother only who can do this, her love is unconditional without any expectation from you all.

At the end, I just wanna say please understand the feelings of your mother, Respect your mother, spend time with your mother and value your mother.

Your mother might scold you she dosen't even understand what you all are going through but don't make this a reason not to talk with your mother. At the end she only want good for you all. You can never get  love like your mother from someone else. So please be nice with your mother and at the first place love your mother and support her. She might not be perfect but you should understand she is also a human who has got a feelings. Not a machine whom you can treat however you like.

My mother is not perfect but whatever she is doing for me makes her the perfect and complete person in my life.

It's fine for me if she makes mistake. It's also fine for me, if she think for herself and wanted to become selfish for a second. It's fine for me to her having a emotion and feelings.

I accept her mistake, her emotion and her feelings, I accept the way she is, the way she loves me, the way she take cares of me. I very much respect and love her and I am very lucky that I got a mother like her.