This is the second blog we have come across in order to improve yourself or the condition and the circumstances you are in now.
In this blog we gonna talk about the concept of discipline.
Before starting let me ask you a few questions;
When you woke up today, what did you do first? Did you make your Bed, Did you exercise or Did you watch your phone? What did you do in your whole day?
what is your routine? Is there any or you are just living your life casually.
Did you got your answers? and again are you satisfied?
Here comes THE CONCEPT OF DISCIPLINED;
According to the book, Discipline means " The practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behaviour, using punishment to correct disobedience. But according to me Discipline means "To live your life in a orderly manner", unlike your disaster wardrobe. Living your life in a orderly manner.
Discipline is something that's helps you to take control over your lifestyle, over your mind and apart all that it helps to take control on yourself, which you people lack.
Look if you have observed yourself, like I said in the first blog you have come across a system of your inconsistency, which is a very common disease among the people. Inconsistency simply means the lack of discipline.
If you want to be a better version of yourself than now, then the second step you need to fallow is to organize yourself, by that I simply means you need to make a routine and fallow it consistently.
"Discipline simple means consistency".
LET'S GO THROUGH THE RULE OF MAKING YOU DISCIPLINED;
1.SIMPLICITY; As you all have known simplicity is the best policy. Let me tell you something. You all have a master degree in making your life a hell complex. To get more productive you need to make a simple routine in which you have believe that u can fallow, like waking up before 8:30 Am not exactly at 9:00 Am or 8:00Am. Don't set rule for every thing. Prioritize your task and focus on only at few things at a time.
Remember the key here is you should be certain with you routine. Probability or Uncertainty will make you go down.
2,FOCUS: Focus is the demanding quality a person can acquire. You know you lack focus because of two things.
1. your reason behind doing work or task is not strong which leads you to procrastination and ultimately you ended with another disease called anxiety.
2. you focus on doing more than one thing at a time, which just not only waste your time but also demotivated you and eventually you stop doing your task.
TRICK: Focus depends upon interest of doing work.
3. DEVELOPING INTREST; Making your task interesting totally depends upon you.
Let's see this with an example; Let's say you have started learning a new skill. The first thing you need to do is to gain as much knowledge as you can about the skill. Here you win half of the battle. second thing is to practice when u start practice u find it challenging and when something challenge you either you fight or you give up. Give up because your mindset is null and also because you lack focus.
4. CHALLENGING YOUR SELF OR DEVELOPING MINDSET: See if you starts something new or learn some new skills than grab the every single knowledge about that stuff. Make a proper planner how you gonna do the task or completing learning new skills. Make your mind set that whatever you have done before you need to do more now, You need to challenge yourself and you can do this by thinking every minute about the task you have to do. Think about it weather you are in shower when you are cooking or even when you are waking.
because when you think more about something, you starts talking action towards it and when u get started remember there is no going back now.
5. PROTRISE YOUR THINGS: Whenever you are starting your day, make a habit of making a to do list because
1. It's help you to make your day organize.
2. It will bring clarity in your mind about your task and your action.
TRICK: Make your list according to the importance of your task from top to the bottom.
Look, in the first blog we have talked about the alignment of your Thought, Belief, Action and Circumstances and here is the fact: Alignment comes with the practice and for practice you all are needed to be in disciplined.
And by discipline I simply mean doing the same thing again and again at a specific time. Not to fallow a routine.
you people out there, learn the actual meaning of discipline.
LET'S ALSO SEE THE REASON WHY YOU ALL ARE NOT DISCIPLINED:
1.KNOWING YOUR PURPOSE: What is the purpose behind setting your goal? To set a goal in your life, you have to know your purpose, know your why, if your why (The Reason) will not be realistic you will not value your goal.
Like if Ram set a Goal to be a topper in the class:
His why; He want's to show the people that he is the best although he is good at study.
Shyam on the other side also want to be the topper.
His why; he needs to get a scholarship from the school because his family don't support his study finance.
Who do you think will be the topper. I would like you to make a comment on it.
Advise; Observe you thought.
2. BEING IN A COMFORT ZONE; As you know I have talked earlier that it is so important for you to challenge yourself cause when u leave your comfort zone, you get a opportunity to come across what potential you hold in you. When you get at a certain level you gain get a chance to beat that level also.
believe me there is no end for climbing your potential ladder. You will be amazed by your potential once you find out what can you do. So leave your comfort zone. It is just making you more and more lazy.
3. DISTRACTION; You all get distracted for the materialistic thing which you know will be the cause for your loss. You are very much aware with your surroundings. Yet you choose something which you know will make you down. know why? cause you lack motivation and motivation doesn't come until your reason for your why is not stronger.
4. LACK OF COMMITMENT; Even when you start working towards your goal. You give up only at a few steps cause you are not committed to your goal. You know why you all are not committed towards your goal because there is uncertainty (Whether you will be able to complete it or not. There is probability which make you loose your faith in your goal). But you can always see the next step. Fallow your next step and within time you will be there.
Now i think you kind of realize some importance of disciplined. See, discipline is just not the bookish concept. It really plays a important role in making your life align. Following discipline just not only shape your life but it also shape your identity. It's helps you to create a clarity with yours goals, with your passion, with your freedom.
Discipline create a structured, balance and responsible environment around you. Discipline helps in building character and value in our life. It helps in balancing freedom and responsibility. Discipline leads you to consistency and being consistent is the only path you can take to achieve your goals.
Now you know how important is for you to be in disciplined. So are you ready to take the second step for being the better version version of yourself. Let me know in the comment.